My Favorite Inspiring Quotes
Be a Person of Integrity
Commentary by Peter Shepherd
"Conform, do as you're told, we know best..." No, the best life is the one you enjoy the most because you retain your own values and remain focused on your vision, not simply aiming to meet others' expectations or to be loyal to values that are not your own. Conforming is the easiest path to take but that may not be the right thing to do and you are unlikely to be happy that way - your conscience will plague you. Because most people follow the path of least resistance, it tends to attract and gather the majority, creating enough social power and influence in turn to create enormous pressure on others around them to conform to the group's values. However, those who make the world a better place - that's you, right? - choose not to go down the easy route and do not compromise their integrity.
Integrity is doing the right thing even when no one is watching. A genuine person will be honest and conscientious, no matter how much sacrifice that entails. An insincere person hides behind lies, hypocrisy and deceit.
Wanting to please others or not wanting to upset them is not a good enough reason to compromise what we feel and know is the right thing to do; otherwise we climb on the slippery slide to a life without integrity, which is really no life at all. If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything.
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