Heart to Heart Coaching
Answers to Questions submitted to the Trans4mind Coaches
IMPROVING RELATIONSHIPS:
Have meaningful relationships
Express myself
Ask powerful questions
Learn to listen
Be non-judgmental
Family relationships
Friendly relationships
Successful dating
Romantic relationships
Breaking up?
Different values?
A loving marriage
Sex and infidelity
Nurturing your children
Express myself
Ask powerful questions
Learn to listen
Be non-judgmental
Family relationships
Friendly relationships
Successful dating
Romantic relationships
Breaking up?
Different values?
A loving marriage
Sex and infidelity
Nurturing your children
- I would like to settle down and meet someone nice, but my heart has been broken and I lack confidence in relationships with men – can you help me?
- My philosophy on life is that love is the all powerful force. However I do not seem to experience this force in my relationships.
- I do not have peace of mind and still feel guilty. I don't know what to do.
- How can I help my 24 year old son who I believe has given up on life?
- How can i go beyond destructive repeat behavior in my relationships?
- How do I remain open and free of the build up of sludge that life can sometimes throw at me?
- I love my boyfriend but he doesn't have the maturity for a relationship.
- I have had plastic surgery and my family is rejecting me.
- I want my husband to change and I am getting frustrated.
- I have an acquired disability, have no purpose in life and poor relationships with family and friends - how can I be more positive and think better thoughts?
- How can I stop dwelling on family relationships and rise above my anxiety?
- I hope to become a better teacher and find some peace in this mess that I have to work in.
- I repeatedly get into relationships with men who are abusive - I'm so confused.
- How can I stop becoming so angry and learn to communicate in a relationship?
- My spirit is awake again but my marriage to my husband has turned stale
- How can I express myself creatively and find my life's purpose?
- How can I achieve success in life?
- How can I stop reacting angrily to my husband and to other people?
- I am afraid to express myself with my mother and my teachers
- Focusing on my troubled family upbringing has cramped my self expression and led to a low but continual level of anxiety.
- How can I stop becoming so angry and learn to communicate in a relationship?
- How can I become more confident and less self-conscious when expressing myself in front of other people?
- How can I become more confident and less self-conscious when expressing myself in front of other people?
- I am afraid to express myself with my mother and my teachers.
- I expect my boyfriend to live up to my expectations and visit when I would like him to, but he doesn't.
- Help me live without fearing death.
- I am in emotional turmoil. How do I know I am making the right decision?
- I'm feeling lost, what can I do?
- I no longer know how to deal with my anger - what can I do?
- I expect my boyfriend to live up to my expectations and visit when I would like him to, but he doesn't and now I'm angry and stressed.
- My two teenage daughters no longer need me.
- I am stuck in a relationship with a controlling husband – how can I resolve this mess?
- How can I help my 24 year old son who I believe has given up on life?
- How do I find the faith and courage to just let go of my old job and focus on my new business?
- How do I find the faith and courage to just let go of my old job and focus on my new business?
- I love my boyfriend but he doesn't have the maturity for a relationship.
- It feels like our marriage is breaking up and I am now finding my wife physically unattractive.
- I want my husband to change and I am getting frustrated.
- How can I learn to trust and heal my fear of intimacy with my husband?
- I have suffered abuse from my parents and now feel a lot of guilt and fear.
- I am frustrated trying to work in a team with a manager who is less educated than I am.
- Am I right to sit by the phone wishing my ex-boyfriend will ring?
- I discovered my girlfriend was seeing a married man - how can I find it in my heart to let her come back?
- I feel very depressed and angry with my children because my love has turned them into monsters of selfishness.
- How can I shift the fear of other people's negative judgments when at work?
- I feel disconnected from life and from people - please help.
- I'm a young Christian woman who tries not to be judgmental of others, but at the same time I'm very opinionated.
- I wish to have peace in my life and not be co-dependent. I want to be my true self.
- I wish to find myself, see myself, and obtain self-worth, and wholeness.
- How can I overcome the insecurity-fear-jealousy-sadness-resentment that I feel?
- I don't relate to people and they turn on me.
- I feel like someone or something inside me wants to cause me pain or hurt me.
- How do I stop worrying, stop caring what others think and become friendly but positive and assertive?
- I am suffering from an inferiority complex since childhood days.
- I have put everyone and everything else before me, for so long that I feel as if I don't even know myself or who I once was.
- I am strong in different ways than other people but I don't feel happy and fulfilled.
- I am not as affectionate as I ought to be, even with my husband and children. How do I break down this wall?
- How do I deal with in laws who are against me and how do I rescue my relationship with my fiancé?
- My husband's parents do not approve of our marriage and the stress is pulling us apart
- How can my family and I resolve conflict with a difficult family member?
- My mother will not talk about my birth by a man who was not my father - why is it unbearable for me to be around her?
- I feel suffocated by my parents who will not support the plans I have for my life - how can I correct this?
- I have had plastic surgery and my family is rejecting me - please help.
- What can I do to resolve differences of opinion in my family about religion?
- How can I live up to my parents' expectations?
- I am afraid to express myself with my mother and my teachers - please help
- Focusing on my troubled family upbringing has cramped my self expression and led to a low but continual level of anxiety - what can I do to overcome this?
- I have suffered abuse from my parents and now feel a lot of guilt and fear - I am learning to stand up to them. Any tips?
- How can I stop dwelling on family relationships and rise above my anxiety, caused by my need for appreciation from my family?
- My relationship with my mother is not the way I want it to be - How can I take it forward?
- Since my father's death I have had a really bad problem with clutter - What's causing this?
- I want to run away from carrying out my duties to my elderly mother - help!
- How can I stop judging my family, accept them the way they are, and go forward in life?
- I don't relate to people and they turn on me. What lesson can I learn from this painful experience?
- How can I make new friends when people all seem established in their friendships and don't seem to want to connect?
- Am I "my brother's keeper"? My friend's problems drain my energy - how can I take my power back?
- Help me understand envy and jealousy and how it affects the quality of our friendships?
- My relationship with my best friend is being ruined by her husband and now I'm feeling suicidal - please help
- How should I respond to the person I live with who gives out bad vibes?
Choosing the right dating partner and having a successful dating experience
- What is stopping me from finding someone to connect with and love?
- Should I leave my small island to find the perfect man?
- I want a long term relationship but the women I date don't. What am I doing wrong?
- I am being asked to date a married man - but I have doubts that he loves me?
- I'm mad about a woman but she isn't interested in me – how can I forget her?
- My ex-partner is pursuing me but in the past he treated me badly - should I respond?
- After a dysfunctional childhood how can I learn to trust the man to whom I am engaged?
- I have low self esteem and find it hard to know when I really love someone – how can I tell?
- Is it possible to live a happy life without a romantic partner?
Having a successful romantic relationship
- I recently cheated on my boyfriend and it's tearing me apart inside.
- I want to learn how to make a commitment to a girl for love and marriage and overcome my fears of failure, regret and resentment if it goes wrong.
- I'm engaged to a faithful man but I can't stop nagging him about one thing or another.
- I feel frustrated and sad, as I need more attention and validation from my boyfriend.
- The jealousy I feel about the female friend of my boyfriend is out of control.
- I'm deeply hurt when my boyfriend doesn't inform me what he's doing and what's happening in his life.
- What do I need to change about myself to be successful in my relationship?
- Why do men abuse me... why can't I find a man who will love me for myself?
- How can I help my girlfriend through depression?
- After a recent break-up my confidence is low - how can I tell if I am now in true love with my new boyfriend?
- I am about to lose a wonderful woman because we have fallen out about my personal cleanliness - is this mess salvageable?
- My boyfriend loves me but isn't affectionate - we are building a house together, how can I know I will be happy with him?
- How can I stop becoming so angry and learn to communicate in a relationship?
- I repeatedly get into relationships with men who are abusive - I'm so confused. What am I doing wrong?
- I've been with men who only wanted me for one thing - now I feel insecure and down on myself. How can I heal myself from a lack of confidence and self worth?
- I expect my boyfriend to live up to my expectations and visit when I would like him to, but he doesn't and now I'm angry and stressed - can you help with some clarity?
- Why am I feeling so emotionally vulnerable since I met the man of my dreams?
- How can I go beyond destructive repeat behavior in my relationships?
- I'm in love with a married man – what do I do?
- I love my boyfriend but he doesn't have the maturity for a relationship - what am I to do?
- What can I do to get my husband back? He told me he just thinks of me as a friend but is no longer passionate about me.
- How can I get this girl to give it one more try and have the opportunity to prove that we can be good together again?
- How to break free of a no-good leach and live my own life?
- Did I sign a lifetime imprisonment contract on the date I legally married?
- At what point does one realize that it is time to end a relationship?
- Should I leave my family for a man who loves me?
- I would do anything to have my ex-partner back in my life, even though she demands complete separation.
- My husband used to beat me up and he still insults me – how do I get out of this situation?
- Our relationship has become difficult because we are both trying to heal ourselves. Do I stay or go?
- After my husband's affair, what are the consequences of restarting my marriage and of the alternative, going forward alone?
- He's irresponsible and unfaithful and I am at the end of my rope - what do I do?
- I want to leave my husband for my soul mate, but my children will never talk to me again if I do.
- I discovered my girlfriend was seeing a married man - how can I find it in my heart to let her come back?
- My boyfriend has broken up with me - I've asked my Higher Self what to do but I get nowhere.
- Am I right to sit by the phone wishing my ex-boyfriend will ring?
Succeeding in a relationship where your partner has different values
- Wanting to marry someone in the same religious group has now left me trapped in a foreign country with a cruel wife.
- My husband and I have totally different values
- Relationship or personal growth - which do I choose?
- My spirit is awake again but my marriage to my husband has turned stale - how can I continue to develop as an individual?
- Can two people, who are at different levels on the spiritual journey, have a compatible partnership?
- I want my husband to change and I am getting frustrated – how do I react to this situation?
- I've spent twenty years studying spiritual enhancement but I feel we are growing apart – how can I foster my husband's growth and save our marriage?
- Do I stay in my dull relationship and trust to finding happiness within, or do I act bravely and look for love elsewhere?
Creating a marriage full of love and understanding
- I can't convince myself I can trust my husband, or that he means what he says.
- My question, is how do I know if I truly love my husband?
- My new relationship is hurting my wife and now my lover has fallen out of love with me.
- Which comes first - my husband and family or my Ph.D?
- Although it feels right for both of us is it unethical to split up with my incompatible husband?
- How can I stop reacting angrily to my husband and to other people?
- How can I best support my wife and aid her recovery from depression?
- It feels like our marriage is breaking up and I am now finding my wife physically unattractive - is there something wrong with me?
- How can I learn to trust and heal my fear of intimacy with my husband? I think I need to forgive my parents for my difficult upbringing.
Understanding problems with sex and infidelity within marriage
- My relationship ended because I did not trust my girlfriend not to kisses and hugs to other men like she does to me. What am I to do?
- I am with someone whom I absolutely adore, so why do I still have fantasies about having sex with other men?
- I suspect the way I have been meeting my sexual needs in the past is causing problems, and I fear this will affect my present relationship.
- I was unfaithful to my boyfriend. How can I win his love and trust back?
- My relationship is on/off and we haven't been loyal. Should we keep trying to work this out or do we need to let go and move on?
- What can I do about my partner, who I cannot afford to keep and who does not work or contribute?
- I don't trust men any more because of one man who betrayed and threatened me. I'm afraid to enter a new relationship in case he will hurt me too.
- I'm in love with a "wonderful man" but am happily married with children – can I love two men at the same time?
- Can I carry on a friendship with my best friend who I had sex with before I met my husband, when my husband is now objecting to our friendship?
- After my husband's affair how can I take a stand and rescue our marriage?
- What is the best way to resolve feelings of mistrust with a colleague who had an affair with my husband?
- I'm a married man and my sexual desires are tempting me to have sex with other women - help me.
- How can I overcome the insecurity-fear-jealousy-sadness-resentment that I feel when my partner focuses on his daughters?
- I feel very depressed and angry with my children because my love has turned them into monsters of selfishness.
- After giving up so much for my children I now feel very sad that they accuse me of selfishness.
- I don't know what to do with both my kids... they do not seem to take any responsibility in making a future of their own.
- I cannot control my two year old son and his misbehavior is ruining our family.
- I feel unable to help my 12 year old daughter from being bullied at school.
- My ex-husband has a mental condition and I am now divorced - how do I explain this to the children?
- How can I help my 24 year old son who I believe has given up on life?
- My two teenage daughters no longer need me and being relegated to their taxi driver is really getting me down – please help.
