Heart to Heart Coaching

Answers to Questions submitted to the Trans4mind Coaches
B. BEING SUCCESSFUL:
Be a person of integrity
Achieve success
Reach your goals
Creative expression
Find your life's purpose
Learning to study
Presenting yourself well
Fulfillment at work
Working well in a team
Be a leader
Invest in your future
Becoming a life coach
Achieve success
Reach your goals
Creative expression
Find your life's purpose
Learning to study
Presenting yourself well
Fulfillment at work
Working well in a team
Be a leader
Invest in your future
Becoming a life coach
- I never feel relaxed, in my mind there always runs a parallel thinking with the active one and this inner conflict makes me perplexed whenever I realize it.
- I live according to the expectations of other people - not to do what I want in life!
- I'm stuck. I know what I have become and I detest it. How do I discover who I really am? How do I find MY-self?
- My parents prevent me from reading and writing fictional books - how can I obtain my rights?
- I want to break away from my mother who is telling me what I should do with my life
- Should I continue my secure career, or follow my inspiration and become a musician?
- I want to make myself like Anthony Robbins - please help.
- What can I do about my guilty feelings resulting from a perceived mistake?
- Although I pretend everything is ok, I work long hours, have few friends and hate myself – is there a way out?
- How can I discern what my inner guidance is telling me about an important decision ahead?
- Recently I've cut corners and recycled old ideas to meet a deadline and now I feel creatively burnt out - how do I start to work creatively again?
- I want to start a new life as a chef in San Francisco - I am in emotional turmoil. How do I know I am making the right decision?
- How can I stop trying to be good and find the real me?
- Help me have more confidence to get a job.
- How can I use 100% of my mind to get everything that I desire?
- How can I achieve success in life?
- Do I need to think big to attain success in life?
- I'm oscillating between visualizing my goals and focusing on irrelevant details with nothing in between - help me out of this rut.
- After reading and applying "The Secret," the Law of Attraction isn't working - now I feel depressed. Where do I go from here?
- I am backing off from completing a project that's important to me and don't understand why.
- I have very high expectations of myself but am struggling to reach my goals - please assist me.
Expressing yourself creatively
- How do I find my passion in life, and my one niche topic to write a book about?
- How can I become more confident and less self-conscious when expressing myself in front of other people?
- I want to be a freelance writer and earn a handsome amount but I cannot get my thoughts down on the page – what's causing this?
- Recently I've cut corners and recycled old ideas to meet a deadline and now I feel creatively burnt out - how do I start to work creatively again?
- Focusing on my troubled family upbringing has cramped my self expression and led to a low but continual level of anxiety - what can I do to overcome this?
- Although I'm successful in my career, I don't really know what I want to be or to do... how can I find what my true goal in life is?
- I need a challenge in my life but I'm very stuck in ways to find my purpose. The search for meaning is even more elusive than ever before.
- I want to work from home and have a more meaningful life, but I'm still searching for my life purpose and passion, to understand why I am here.
- I feel there is something more I am supposed to be doing with my life - but what?
- At 71, having achieved much of what I dreamed and worked for, where do I find new energy and motivation?
- Is there anything I can do to find my life's purpose?
- I am cut off from my feelings, low in energy, depressed and not where I want to be in life.
- I want to meet the partner of my dreams but I have yet to discover who I am and find my life's purpose.
- I've found my life's purpose, but my confidence has taken a knock and I don't know how to move forward?
- With no hopes or ambitions, how do I find a reason to get out of bed in the morning?
- I'm happily married and successful but something is missing. How can I find my dream?
- My life is becoming a spiritual quest and I am looking for a spiritual community - how do I honor this search?
- How can I express myself creatively and find my life's purpose?
- How can I increase my creativity and find my true calling?
- How do I get past this block and start moving toward a new job?
- I feel as if something has ignited inside of me, and I now long to pursue energy healing but I am stuck in a relationship with a controlling husband – how can I resolve this mess?
- I feel I am no longer appreciated at work and think I want to start a new career, but I am not sure of my new career direction – where do I go from here?
- How can I discover my life mission and dream job?
- After a series of losses I can no longer keep busy and have lost my sense of purpose – I feel so useless, help me.
- I've been studying for ages and can't find my life's purpose - help me.
- How can I give up smoking and find my life's purpose?
- I am trying to make a new start and studying, but forgetting things is a problem for me
- How can I improve my ability to study?
Presenting yourself successfully
- How can I have the confidence to speak in public?
- Preparing yourself psychologically for a job interview
Finding fulfillment through work
- I am highly educated but unable to connect with people around me and perfor my work
- Letting go of my previous occupation
- I hate my job but it keeps me well. How do I break away?
- I'm stressed at work and developing a drinking habit - I hate myself for it - please help.
- I am a teacher struggling to discipline disadvantaged children and feel unsupported by the school administrators - please help me.
- I am considering getting a loan to fund a spiritual niche business but feel confused
- I hope to own an I.T. firm and be a leader/mentor in society.
- I hope to be a leader in inspiring and educating the world to improve the quality of their lives.
- I am strong in different ways than other people but I don't feel happy and fulfilled. How can I share the love I feel?
- How can I improve the positive cash flow in my life?
- How can I control my impulsiveness with money?
- My girlfriend and I have dreams but we don't know if we can afford them - advice please.
- I'm visualizing abundance but if the money isn't there do we keep forging ahead in a dream world with blinkers on?
Becoming a successful life coach and counselor
- How can I really find my place in society? What's the missing piece in the jigsaw of my life?
- I want to help people but I'm stuck with the belief that I may not succeed.
- How can I set myself up as a counselor?
- Why do people ignore me when I answer their questions by giving advice?
- I'm thinking of becoming a life coach - can you offer any advice?
- I have ambitions to make a difference by helping the mentally ill but I am struggling myself – am I doing the right thing?
- As a self-employed person how can I improve my motivation?
- After failing to get a healing business going I lack confidence in taking up a job - Help me.
- I am considering getting a loan to fund a spiritual niche business but feel confused when I consider taking this path - Is this the right path for me?