Why it's OK to Fall at the First Hurdle!
By Wallace Huey, Director of Training at Trans4mind
Our society is riddled with perfectionism and striving for high achievement. This attitude is inculcated from a early age through our education system. At school we learn that mistakes are wrong and failure is shameful. Such attitudes are deeply engrained.
No wonder most of us freeze when presented with a new challenge outside of our usual run of experience.
I have to tell you - if your life is close to perfect and neatly ordered it only means one thing - you are not stretching yourself enough!
Each time we take on a new and higher challenge, like a new dating partner, or a new job, we need to raise ourselves in the game of life. Most specifically we need to raise our awareness and level of courage. In life it’s important to learn to be like a champion hurdler. The collection of hurdles stretches out in front and we need to maintain our balance, relying on our fitness, heightened awareness and increased courage to see us safely jump them all.
And like the wise athlete, you are unconcerned if you fall at the first hurdle. That’s because you can create a safety net of friends, family and a contingency plan to enable you to get back in the race, should you happen to lose awareness and crash over the first hurdle. It’s the presence of your safety net that allows you to brush yourself down, patch up a cut or two and go back to the start of the race and try again.
There is a new philosophy coming into many leading edge companies now - it’s called fail fast. At last some businesses are beginning to realize that failure, falling at the first hurdle, can be the precursor or even the secret to success. This is because we all learn much more from failure than success. Problem solving, creativity and innovation, they have discovered, happens when people are encouraged to 'have a go,' where failure is accepted as a natural and inevitable part of the process of learning and an essential ingredient that leads to success.
However this philosophy of 'fail fast' can be extended out from business into life as a whole. For example if you want to have a romantic partner, and you are not sure of the type of person who suits you, have a number of liaisons and learn from the ones that do not work.
Seen in this way life becomes a big adventure. Freed of the need to succeed at every attempt and to be perfect, we can line up for the race and learn to jump hurdles by trial and error.
Now you may say that this is all well and good, but failure is hard. It’s hard on my self esteem, it’s hard on my finances and it’s hard on my emotions.
And this is all true. However there is one very important way to reduce the risk of failure, to soften its effects should you fail a time or two, and to rapidly learn the lessons of failure so that it does not happen too often.
Can you think what it is?
Here’s a clue. What does every champion hurdler have that his companions down at the local amateur athletics club have probably never bothered with?
A professional coach!
Having a professional coach allows you to fail less often and to learn quickly from those failures. Having a professional coach allows you to succeed where you might have failed. Having a professional coach allows you to run the race of your life and to enjoy the race itself as well as the winning.
Can you think of any top athlete, who does not have a professional coach?
How much more cool is it then to have a coach not just for athletics, but for your whole life!
A Life Coach.
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Then once you understand your plan and have the goal for your training and coaching clear and written down, and you have faith in the professionalism of your coach, you can take on the challenges in your life like never before and make definite progress.
Then you can enjoy the race of life - and if you fall at the first hurdle, your coach will help you pick yourself up, say well done for having a go, and empower you to clear the hurdle next time around.
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