Love Thy Self!
Finding the love of your life could be quite difficult if your self esteem is low. A possible mate can see a low self esteem, and unless you work on improving your self esteem, the thought of attracting a potential mate may prove to be a difficult task. So the basic key to finding the right person is to be truthful to yourself and to learn how to love thy self.
Loving yourself means knowing yourself and vice versa, and finding out what it is that makes you tick is the first step in boosting your self esteem. Being able to congratulate yourself for doing a good deed is a way to basic self esteem, especially in public. Being assertive is one of the best skills you can have, assertiveness can help you in your personal life, careers, and yes your relationships. Being assertive is to recognize that you yourself has thoughts, dreams, feelings, and emotions. Plus learning to deal with things that make you uncomfortable will help in becoming more assertive.
When you are feeling good about yourself and your self esteem is better, others will notice. You will have a much better chance to finding and building a gratifying relationship with someone who sees your for who you really are. Possible mates like to see their partners take control of situations, and to know what they want out of life and relationships. Projecting the right image is very attractive, and you want others to see the real you, and not just someone you think they want to see.