Do I Look Fat? The Top Five Reasons To Say No"..
By David Skul
The question is asked by your wife or girl friend every time you get ready to go out right. Well let me tell you something and you better listen up and listen up good. If you like having a wife or a girlfriend you will say no. Not just when it is the trust but when it is a lie too. Here are the top five reasons to say no.
Reason1: Your wife or girlfriend trusts you
Let's face it cave brothers the women like us to like the way they look. Now for a man that lives with ridicule and trials everyday of his life the truth is all that matters right? Well not all the time. Your wife or girlfriend trusts that you love her for who she is not what she looks like. We all say it, but do we mean it? You had better because of not she will start to lose trust in you as her support system. Sometimes the truth hurts and this time it might be you.
Reason 2: People believe what they hear about themselves
Humans are social beings. We crave interaction from one another. We love to hear that we are beautiful, smart, or sexy from another person. It makes us feel good. Well that is not all this feedback does. It can also shape the way we see ourselves. No matter how confident your wife or girlfriend appears to be on the inside repeated verbal conditioning about her weight and the way she looks can contribute to obesity and lethargy.
Reason 3: Diets are hell (For everyone)
Do you like that inevitable crankiness every woman exhibits toward you on a regular basis? Do you want to amplify the effects of this type of behavior? If you are wise you will do everything in your power to avoid dieting for your wife or girlfriend. You not encourage anything, but healthy portions of good food coupled with exercise. It is proven that we get angry when we are hungry. It is a primal response to hunger. Why in the name of all that it holy would you intentionally set loose this primal urge upon yourself and the outside world.
Reason 4: Men need love and support too
As men we like to pretend that we are on top of things and that we can live all alone with no one helping or loving us right. Yeah right. Men need more attention to keep our pretty feathers from fading than women do. We need affirmation of our ability to lead, support, and yes please the women in our lives. If we did not feel this way we would not love our mommies. How many men can say that they do not ole their moms?
Reason 5: It is just mean
Did anyone you really loved ever break your heart? The answer for most of us is yes. Were they ever really mean to you. I am talking about the tear out your heart and throw it on the floor mean. Spit in your eye and kick you in the groin mean? If the answer is yes, then remember how it felt before you open your big mouth and ruin your wife or girlfriend's day.