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Hot Dating Tip to Attract Beautiful Women! By Mick Jones, Author; How To Meet Women On The Internet.

I've mentioned this before but repetition is the mother of skill. **You must avoid being predictable and boring.** There is nothing worse that will prevent you from attracting beautiful women. This is the number one reason she'll come out with the dreaded, Lets-just-be-friends. It's only natural to want to spend time with the most interesting person you can. And being single, we luckily have that choice until we decide to take the relationship further. Male and female. It's natural to want to do everything right so that she'll like you...which she'll likely will, but the attraction won't be created. She knows she should like someone as good as you but her buttons aren't being pushed to create sexual tension. What she really wants is a little adventure and unpredictability. Now you don't have to turn into James Bond Overnight...or go parachuting on your first date. What I mean is not to be predictable and afraid to offend etc. How to be unpredictable you ask? Good question...let's look at it. First thing is to 'always' have a playful and cheerful attitude about you. This gives you a carefree charisma and fun to be around. This is exactly what you want women to think and say of you. e.g. 'That Mick, he's always having a good time and fun to be around.' Don't be afraid to take the mickey out of the lady good naturedly. This will create sexual tension and show you to be a man not afraid to have some fun. I've always wanted to have beautiful women in my life and have done so. The times I've blown it has been when I reverted to the nice guy, eager to please, predictable habits. DON'T do it! Truth be known, most of us are nice guys. Be unpredictable in what you say next in conversations; work on it until it becomes habit. Saying what ISN'T expected is one of the major tips to humor. So you've got a women laughing, chances are she didn't expect what just happened. You gave her that laugh and created a pleasant atmosphere. That said, she is going to test your character. Lots of times, this will come in the form of demands and requests - both direct and indirect. You want to keep the pleasantness, but you don't want to give up any authority or become predictable by instantly caving into her wishes. What to do? DELAY. This is another key word. It applies to all sorts of aspects of dating, but for now we're going to focus on spontaneity. Write it down somewhere in your diary / day planner. Then write it down on every page, at the top, in bold letters. Go ahead and get creative. DELAY. What do I mean by delay? Let's say you're out at night, and your lady mentions how much she loves Thai food. Don't say anything, and DON'T go there that night. But go two weeks later. It shows thoughtfulness 'and that you were listening 'without any of the wimpy characteristics usually associated with such displays. Plus, she knows not to expect where the night will lead, and not to try and guide it. She talks about how she loves the beach. Great- take her there when she least expects it, like a Friday night after her work. You get the idea. Pay attention to what she likes, but file the memory away. Don't immediately try and fulfill her desires -But fulfill them on YOUR time, at unexpected moments. This is one of the easiest skills to learn, but also one of the easiest to let slip when crunch time comes. A little whining and most men lose their heads and do whatever is asked of them. Better is to make it clear that you don't have time for whining -politely but firmly 'and over time let the lady believe she will get what she wants, when YOU want to give it to her. By the way, all of this, it counts about a thousand fold when it comes to sex. Few things are sexier than a man who doesn't lose it at the sight of an exposed breast. If you can control yourself and DELAY satisfaction until you're ready to give it over, the ANTICIPATION becomes more powerful than ACT ALONE usually is - making the act all the more powerful when it comes. Yes, I'm talking about sex. :-] DELAY. This creates sexual tension and it is far easier to satisfy the lady quickly as she is highly aroused. There you have it. I hope you have enjoyed this article. Have fun and good luck... Regards Mick Jones http://ww.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com

About the author:

Author, Mick Jones. Mick has cut his teeth on the front line of the dating battlefields. After many wounds and scars, he now has consistent success! You can too, to sign up to his free newsletter, subscribe box is on our home page at; http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com Mail to; editor@howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com Wren Crescent, Buderim,


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