14 Unique Sex Toys You Need to Try
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When you're feeling soft at the core and as dry as the Sahara, it's time to try something new in the bedroom. Introducing wild sex toys is a great way to get some of that passion back, even under the most difficult circumstances.
No one likes being in a sexless relationship: sex is important to most people and without it, we can feel lonely, isolated, and unattractive. There's no one size fits all solution but the good news is that there are unique sex toys for every kink and couple out there. For instance, here are some sex toys for men that you can try.
In this guide, we'll take a look at the very best sex toys that you can buy to inject some spice back into your love life. Ready to take a trip into a sexual wonderland? Then keep reading!
- Oral Sex Toys
Do you fantasize about your partner having the flexibility of Stretch Armstrong? Wish that they could go down on you while going to town?
Then these oral sex toys could be for you. There are several different oral sex simulators on the market such as the Sqweel Go but they all have a similar design. There's a wheel of tongues that rotates to hit your most sensitive spots.
The toy is great for spending pleasurable time in your own company or when you and your partner are doing the deed. Ask your partner to hold the toy against your clitoris while they're otherwise involved and get ready to have powerful orgasms.
The only real issue with these toys is that they're not normally mounted on a handle so you'll need to position them carefully. Get it right and oh, oh, oh boy, you're in for a treat.
- Couples Vibrators
Getting bored of PIV sex with your partner? Do you just want to make it feel even better? Then using a couples vibrator could be the solution to your bedroom plight.
These toys look weird but don't be intimidated. Their U-shape allows for clitoral and g-spot stimulation. So what, we hear you say, rabbit vibrators have been doing that for ages!
True, but not like this. These vibes are designed to be used while you have sex, tickling his fancy as well as yours. The G-spot vibe augments your tightness and hits your partner's penis with incredible vibrations to make him feel even better while he's pressing it tighter and tighter against you.
- Magic Wand Vibrators
A sex article suggesting a magic wand vibe is like an article on cars suggesting oil changes. It's one that we all know about. Yet while you've undoubtedly heard of these potent, ahem, "massagers," you might not know that you can use them on men, too.
Many men have a sensitive spot about halfway down their shaft, which can feel amazing when their partners hold a magic wand there. They can also be used to spice up oral sex, PIV sex, and any other sex acts where there's a little free space for the wand.
For couples of any configuration, a magic wand is a bedroom essential. They may not be the most interesting sex toy but if you've yet to try one, go buy one. You'll soon see what all the hype is about.
You need to stay safe when using cock rings but when you use them correctly, they can feel incredible. These rings trap blood in the penis, making his erection stronger, delaying orgasm, and making that final release all the more intense.
Yet if you want a cock ring with a little extra, look for one that's got a vibrator built-in. There are a huge number of different kinds of vibrating cock rings but they all have one thing in common: they've got a built-in clitoral vibrator that can make you feel amazing.
These rings keep your clit buzzing during sex and can lead to a stronger orgasm for both partners. Deep penetration plus clitoral stimulation? Sounds like a dream come true.
- Remote Control Vibrators
Are you and your partner being kept apart by lockdown? Do you want to indulge in some discreet fun while you're out and about? These remote control vibrators are quiet, easy to conceal, and are, well, great fun.
These vibes pair with a smartphone via Bluetooth or the internet and can be disconnected at any time if you're not feeling it.
The main draw of these amazing devices is for spicing up phone sex or sexting. Giving your partner control can add intimacy and be a lot more interesting than masturbation.
One of the best-known types of remote control vibrators are those made by Lovense, but they're not the only ones on the market. They are a little more technologically-involved, so before you buy, make sure that their apps are well-made and well-integrated.
These wild sex toys are great for long-distance relationships, whether one has been foisted upon you by lockdown or whether it's your normal situation.
Are you and your partner experimental and kink-friendly? Are you interested in trying watersports but don't want to fully commit to the deed on your first try?
The Whizzinator gives you a safe and clean way to try watersports when you're a golden shower novitiate. The pump on a Whizzinator is designed to resemble a flaccid penis and is attached to a bag containing clean, non-toxic faux-urine.
They even contain a small heating pad that can be used to bring the fake urine up to body temperature to add realism.
For newcomers to the world of watersports, the Whizzinator is a fantastic way to dip your toe into its golden waters.
- Violet Wand
Looking for a sex toy that will add a certain amount of shock and awe to the bedroom? Then look no further than the violet wand, the go-to device for electrostim fans the world over.
These are great for those getting into kink or BDSM. They work by passing a small electric current through the device into your partner's body. They're perfectly safe for most users and the pain is at a similar level to other S&M standbys like whips.
Where you like the electrical current to be applied is up to you. Some like it being applied directly to their genitals, others prefer it to be applied to other parts of the body.
If you are interested in using a violet wand, we'd recommend trying it on yourself first, so you know what it feels like and whether you like it. These crazy sex toys are not for everyone but if you like pain, you may find these light a fire in your belly.
- Male Masturbators
There's something of a stigma against men using sex toys. This stigma belongs in the past and should not impact your bedroom decisions. If a woman can own a dildo or a vibrator, a man can own a masturbator.
Male masturbators like Fleshlights are, of course, great for men to use on their own. Yet they can also add a bit of spice to the bedroom.
For instance, next time you're considering masturbating a male partner, why not reach for a masturbator instead of using your hand? They're perfect for edging and will make your man feel amazing.
- Butt Plugs
Do you enjoy anal play? Want to take the feeling to the next level? Then try butt plugs.
These toys have been around for eons with modern butt plugs dating back to medical dilators used in the late 19th century. Their patients apparently found these were useful for much more than treating their health problems.
Butt plugs and anal play as a whole has a stigma around it but if you enjoy it, go wild with these cool sex toys.
Butt plugs can feel amazing for women and men alike and can turn sex from great to mind-blowing.
It feels like there are as many butt plugs in the world as there are butts, each a little bit different. Some of these unique sex toys include animal tails, others are transparent, some feature jewels. We're sure that if you look hard enough, you could find one that features real diamonds.
If you want to add a little extra to your sex life, consider butt plugs. Just make sure that it's got a flared base!
- Prostate Massagers
Butt plugs are all well and good but if your man is into anal play and you really want to make him feel great, look for a prostate massager. Devices like the Lelo Loki reach up into your man and tickle his prostate.
The prostate plays a huge role in the male orgasm and semen production. If you stimulate the prostate, you can expect even better orgasms.
Not every man will be open to the idea of prostate massage but those that are will love it.
- Discreet Vibrators
Want to get some quality alone time but don't want to get caught in the act by a family member or roommate? Consider packing a discreet vibrator.
Looking like they've come straight out of Q's lab at MI6, these disguised vibrators are fantastic. These unique sex toys come in all sorts of hidden guises.
Some look like tubes of lipstick, others look like pens, others look like makeup brushes. Whatever disguise you choose, these discreet vibrators allow you to have a lot of fun without anyone suspecting a thing.
If you live with judgemental or sex-negative people or are visiting some, these vibes let you have fun without getting into a fight.
- Fisting Toys
Perhaps the most insane sex toy on this list, the Belladonna Magic Hand looks like a hand complete with a forearm, all the way up to the elbow. This toy is designed for people who are experienced with fisting and it's not for newcomers.
The toy can be inserted into any orifice and to any depth that you like. You can also buy a version of the toy that comes with a suction cup for mounting on to a wall.
The toy is great for seasoned fisting veterans thanks to its selection of different diameters. Make sure you know what you're doing before you get started. We'd recommend taking a look at safety information before you do it for the first time.
- Squirting Dildos
Want to add a level of realism to your next masturbation session? Want to give yourself a creampie?
If you answered yes to either of the above questions, may we present squirting dildos for your consideration? These unique sex toys contain a small reservoir for you to stash your preferred liquid.
When you reach an orgasm, squeeze the dildo's balls and it will ejaculate inside of you. If you're missing that feeling then look no further.
- A Fingertip Vibrator
If you like to use your hands rather than other toys, you can still spice things up with a fingertip vibrator. These toys consist of a strap to put around your arm and tiny vibrators that fit on your fingertips.
If you like taking matters into your own hands but are getting bored or feel that it's becoming ho-hum, take a look at these devices.
They're also great fun for a partner to use during foreplay. These vibrators are washable and easy to clean too, making cleanup a breeze.
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