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Be YOUnique

By Mikkie Mills

How Do We Get There?

Being unique in a world that tries to tell you that you are not can be difficult. At times, it can be like trying to find a needle in a haystack, but in this case, once you find it, that same needle can puncture you and make you bleed. With that, you may not want that needle after all, but it's all you’ve got. It's the same way with us in a haystack of a world trying to find what makes us who we are and then trying to see what to do about it once we found it. Others may not like what you have found when you have found yourself and that is common. This punctures our hearts and we may feel a whirlwind of emotions after taking that hard of a blow, but what is important is that we found ourselves. The point is, we are all different and that's what makes us each so unique from one another.

We have different likes and dislikes and most of the time you need to find what works for you in order to truly be happy with your life. Something to remember is that you are who you are for many reasons. You are the best person to be who you are and in doing what you do. You have unique talents and ideas that need to be brought to the table to help in collaborations with others in group settings and even to help on a one on one basis.

Finding what those talents and unique ideas are is important so that you are able to make the most of those things. A good way to find out what those talents and abilities are is by asking the people that you spend the most time with. They have seen you in many different situations and have seen the way you preform. You have strengths, so, ask them.

Achieving a Peace of Mind

We all have our different ways of achieving that peace of mind while still being who we are. Some might enjoy relaxing by a swimming pool or going on a run to achieve it. There are plenty of reliable companies that finance swimming pools. Some people do art, play sports or even just talk with a friend to do that.

This is something that takes time and energy. Another thing is that, lot of the time its mental and emotional energy that is being used. We need to be aware that with energy used and the fact with that same energy we need to have a way to be replenished somehow. Taking time off is a great way to start. Even if you are a person who works all day and all night and you think you don’t have time to rest, you need to make some. It is what helps us achieve a peace of mind.

Peace Turns to Hope

Having something to hope for allows us to move forward. A peace of mind can only last so long. Hope is what brings a long-lasting peace of mind. A peace of mind among the stress and heartache. Peace can happen when we allow ourselves breathing room, but what brings hope?

Some might say that God gives them hope or others may say hope is when you make your mark on a goal you have worked a long and hard time for. The sense that everything is going to be alright might be a way someone feels hopeful. This is another thing that each individual decides for themselves.

Whatever you decide to do or to be in this life is up to you. It is up to your own set of values or beliefs that you decide on for yourself and it is in the way you choose to live your life. With all of this in mind, allow yourself to be inspired by others and how unique they are and live. Live with all you’ve got.

About Mikkie Mills: “I’m a Chicago native who loves to share her expertise about personal development and growth. When I’m not writing, I’m chasing the little ones around or rock climbing at the local climbing gym.” More articles by Mikkie.
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