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A Guide to Improving Your Self-Confidence

One of the issues that can hold you back when it comes to fulfilling your ambitions is having very little self-assurance to go out and grab opportunities. Confidence is an essential aspect in all of our lives, yet so many people struggle to discover and improve it.

Nobody is born with a great deal of inner confidence: it is built upon over the years which eventually allows you to feel good about yourself and gives yourself the strength to conquer the challenging world we live in. In order to beat your inner demons, you need to understand the underlying issues that contribute to your self-doubt and make the necessary changes to re-build your confidence.

If you want to learn more, below are six ways you can build your self-confidence today to improve your life and happiness.

1. Visualize who you want to be

If you are looking to secure that dream job or are hoping to overcome an obstacle you have always feared, visualizing yourself being successful is a powerful tool to overcome the poor depiction you have of yourself and give you that boost needed when you are feeling low.

If you believe this to be of the key factors that is holding you back, it would be worth reciting affirmations to yourself which are sure to give you a far more positive outlook. If for example, you hate your physical appearance and continuously focus on the negatives, next time you look in the mirror, choose one feature you love about your body and keep reminding yourself of it.

2. Dress to impress

You may never have thought too much about your choice of clothing. However, the way in which you dress does have a close correlation with your inner confidence. No-one is more aware of the way you look other than you, and it can ultimately affect how you conduct yourself and interact with others. It is not about keeping up with the latest fashion trends, but mainly about feeling good in whatever you are wearing and sure of yourself in both social and business situations. A few aspects to bear in mind when it comes to polished dressing is choosing attire to suit the occasion, understanding the audience of the event, owing the style you choose to wear and combining color palettes effectively.

3. Make lifestyle changes

Perhaps your self-confidence has been knocked by the way in which you view your body in terms of weight gain. Working out can have a significantly positive impact on your self-esteem. If you believe you are out of shape or are struggling with a few wobbly bits that you just can’t shift, you are most likely feeling unattractive, insecure and unfit in comparison to others around you. Keeping up a fitness regime can, therefore, improve your physical appearance and even have positive impacts on your mental health.

If you are looking to lose weight, you need to ensure you set yourself reasonable expectations that you can achieve. Immediate results are simply not realistic, therefore setting yourself up for failure from the get-go is unlikely to deliver positive results in the long-term. Instead, focus on short-term, achievable goals.

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4. Posture and body language

The way in which you conduct yourself is also a significant factor of boosting self-confidence, therefore aiming to improve your posture and body language could make you feel happier in social and work-related environments. Those who sit slumped with closed-off posture are ultimately suggesting that they don’t feel worthy to be in others’ company. All that is needed is a few minor adjustments with body language to give off a completely different vibe. Whether in a work environment, out meeting new people or having a catch-up with friends, stand tall, keep your head up and make good eye contact. One way to stay poised is to imagine a rope is pulling the top of your head and the rest of your body will follow suit.

5. Be kind to others

It may seem like a cheesy tip to remember, but how you choose to treat others can impact your overall positivity and self-assurance. When you think negatively or refuse to make nice comments to others, you are sure to project a downbeat ambiance that is bound to be noticed by others in your company. Instead, giving compliments and fulfilling kind gestures gives you the control to make others feel good, just as you would like for yourself. If you fear that you are not a good person or are unpopular with colleagues or acquaintances, one act of kindness each day could build on your likeability. You may even decide to get stuck into community work by lending your time by participating in a volunteering placement. Doing so may give you an emotional boost due to making a vast difference to someone else’s life.

6. Focus on solutions rather than obstacles

If you constantly grumble and whine and focus on the problems in your life with little consideration of how you can solve them, you need to change your mindset right now. No-one likes being around someone who always moans about their issues without putting the correct steps in place to overcome hurdles. Instead of sinking into your personal problems, set yourself clear goals on how you can find solutions. If for example, you are in an unhappy in a relationship, ask yourself why this may be and how you can make positive changes within the relationship for greater happiness. If there is no real solution regarding the current situation and how you are able to move forward, it may be time to consider whether to walk away for your own personal well-being and mental state.

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