Habits to Help You Grow as a Successful Individual
By Aleksandar Radosevic
Why are some people just better than others? The answer to this question is divided by a vast number of variables that we get entangled in daily. It begins from our personality that is dictated by our genes, through the behaviors that we learned and some social and cultural norms that created specific individuals as we are today.
It is a highly complex process, and to achieve the best version of yourself, it would help if you created specific habits that will make you satisfied. Being happy all the time is pathology; we need to embrace all emotions and create a stable state of mind. You need to strive to a mindset that will ensure a strong foundation for building a skyscraper of skills, ethical behaviors, and high-value life choices.
To start this unique journey, you need to start with the basics. Now, sit down and clear your head. That way, you crystallize a vision of your goal. What kind of person would you like to become? And how will it affect your lifestyle, career, and relationships with people?
Prioritize your goals
When you create a list of your goals, it is time to make a hierarchy, prioritizing crucial goals that will have the most significant impact on your life. But why is this so important? Because having a list of priorities is a plan!
Now you have not just a mere idea but a real achievable plan. In this stage, your goals are halfway done. Now you need to dedicate a determined amount of work toward those goals. Each day do just one thing toward your vision - you will see changes as fast as you reach them.
The next habit you need to adopt is an organization. The organization is the hardest thing to do. It is because you need to stick with your plan and monitor all the work in real time. Having your plan written down on paper is a good starting point, but it is not enough. Today in the hi-tech industry, evolution is salvation for monitoring and execution of all projects, plans, and tasks. Try innovative project management tools such as Nifty, which can give you a unique point of view of your personal growth. Consider utilizing your plan into a project management tool and easily monitor and execute daily tasks.
Do hard things first
Now you see the transition from an idea to a plan, and now it is a well-structured project. Ok, what is your next thing to do? Train yourself to do the hardest things first. It is in our nature to do more straightforward tasks first because it will show the result in a short period. But to create a long term satisfaction, you need to struggle with big ones first.
Your focus is the best in the mornings, so it is a perfect time to dedicate to hard work. And then the rest of the day you can do other less significant tasks.
Prepare for tomorrow
The last but not the least habit to conquer is preparation for the next day. Every night before going to bed, create a shortlist of today's achievements and also build an arrangement for tomorrow. That way, when you get up in the morning, you will have a precise structure for a new day.
It is a great way to measure what you have done day by day and give you that incredible feeling of satisfaction and self-awareness.
To conclude, you need to know that to form a habit, there will be at least three weeks of hard and dedicated work on your behavior and daily tasks. And to achieve that, there will be a lot of distractions, demotivational thoughts, discouraging people, etc.
Just remember that this is not a sprint - it is a life-changing marathon.
The main idea is not to be better than others - but to become a better version of yourself.
What is your most significant obstacle toward personal growth?