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Top 6 Ways to Make Someone Fall in Love With You

Love is a natural feeling of attraction and affection towards each other. If you have met someone you feel is your perfect match, you definitely hope that the feeling is mutual. Although there is no perfect manual on how to make someone fall in love with you, there are a few things you can do to capture the full attention of that special someone.

Here are some valuable tips on how to make someone fall back in love with you...

1. Keep Smiling

Smiling is the ultimate icebreaker. When you meet someone for the first time, it is normal to be anxious, and you may end up feeling uncomfortable. When this happens, you'll need something that lights up the room and eliminates the tension. That's the power of a smile; it creates a perfect atmosphere for love and comfort.

Smiling does not only work for people meeting for the first time. Your lifestyle and responsibilities, such as school and work, may prevent you from paying attention to your partner regularly, and sometimes, they may feel like you no longer care for them. A simple smile and a few kind words reignite the dying flames of love.

2. Maintain Eye Contact

Keeping eye contact with a stranger can be nerve-wracking yet oddly relaxing. Eye contact is a sign that you are paying attention to someone, an important aspect of love. It has been scientifically proven that couples in love often maintain eye contact 75% of the time.

3. Be a Good Listener

Nobody likes being in a conversation with a partner who does not pay attention. Many people fall in love with someone who listens to them because it shows that they care. They love it when someone remembers what they like, important dates, favorite food, favorite colors, and so on. Sadly, you may never learn about such things if you ignore them.

A good tip on being a good listener is to keep your phone away when you are in a conversation with that special someone. That way, you will have little distractions from the conversation you are having. Also, consider a serene environment to increase the level of attention between you and the other person to make the conversation easier. Remember not to be too quick to change the topic because it may seem rude.

4. Appreciate Your Partner

A little appreciation goes a long way in making someone fall in love with you. Appreciation is kindness, and love is kind. You can never go wrong when noticing the little things a person does for you by appreciating their kindness.

You can make them feel special by sending them a bouquet of flowers or any other well-researched gift. To win their hearts, be sure to include a beautiful love quote along with the gift. You may come up with the quote yourself or view some good examples of heartwarming love quotes online.

Some great examples of love quotes from my favorite quotes website Turtle Quotes include:

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” ― Dr. Seuss

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.” ― Martin Luther King Jr.

“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride.” ― Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets

Feeling unappreciated is one reason people fall out of love. On the other hand, it is easy for someone to fall in love if they feel appreciated.

5. Hold Hands and Give Hugs

One of the reasons why people seek love is to find someone who supports and comforts them. You may never understand how much it means to your partner if you hold their hand when they feel lonely or weak inside.

Be sure to ask them how they are doing or whether they are okay. Sometimes, people fear to open up even to someone who may seem close to them. Holding hands and giving hugs increases the connection between people, eventually leading to love.

Do not be shy to show your partner affection by holding their hand or giving them a shoulder to lean on. If you are unsure whether it would be appropriate to do so, especially with a new partner, you may ask them if they are okay with it.

6. Focus On Yourself

As odd as it may sound, people love to be associated with something great even if the greatness itself isn't materialistic. Focusing on yourself, in this context, means pursuing your career, goals, dreams, etc. It could also mean developing a positive attitude and mindset.

This strategy works, especially when you want to attract someone's attention without being too persuasive. For example, you have a higher chance of being noticed when you feel good about yourself than when you do not.

The law of attraction states that positive thoughts bring positive experiences (and people) into your life and vice versa. However, this does not mean that you should brag about your achievements; in fact, humility is attractive.

Remember, falling in love is a natural process that creates emotions; you need to be emotionally stable to attract the right person. Take love easy, just as it is, and allow the natural process to occur. For best results, always ensure that you have a healthy relationship with someone you wish to fall in love with.

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