"You idiot. Can't you do anything right? I asked you to do a simple task. And what did you do? You screwed it up big time. What the hell is the matter with you?"
Some people believe that humiliation is a good teacher. You gotta learn. You must not forget. You will be punished if you don't do it right. Humiliation will make a lesson stick.
These folks are right. Humiliation is a good teacher. But the lesson you learn is not what the teacher is intending. You don't learn to do things better. You don't learn to upgrade your skills. You don't learn to trust your ability to learn. What you do learn, instead, is to...
Yes, humiliation throws cold water on the joy of learning and shuts down the joy of risk taking. Indeed, a single dose of humiliation in a vulnerable child can lead to a belief that "I can't do it." While a regular dose of humiliation will profoundly cripple a child's belief in himself and in his ability to learn. "I'm dumb. I'm stupid. I'm no good. And don't try to convince me otherwise."
If you've been exposed to the debilitating effects of humiliation, it's time to rectify the damage that has been done. Here's what you must do:
Whatever humiliating experiences you have had in the past, do not let them continue to define you today. Right now, this moment, this very moment, say something that gives homage to who you are and what you're about. If whatever you say brings a smile to your face or warmth to your inner being, you know you've chosen the right words.
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