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Important Things to Consider When Planning a Funeral

Planning a Funeral

Did you know that the second leading cause of death for adults between the ages of twenty-five and sixty-four is cancer?

No matter the circumstance, when a loved one passes away, it's always a difficult situation. Planning their final goodbye shouldn't be a stressful and daunting task but something you plan well in advance so the road to their memorial is something that you know and understand.

Planning a funeral is an emotional and difficult process, but with the proper guidance, you can make this process a lot easier. If you want some help, continue reading to see some things to keep in mind while you're arranging a funeral.

Religious or Cultural Beliefs

Religious and cultural beliefs caninfluence the type of service, the music and prayers that are included, and whether or not there are specific customs that must be followed. For example, a Hindu funeral might include rituals such as the lighting of lamps and offerings of food, while a Catholic funeral may include a Mass.


Funeral costs can add up quickly and it's essential to have a clear idea of what expenses you can afford. Be sure to get itemized quotes from funeral homes, including the cost of services, merchandise (such as caskets and urns), and other miscellaneous expenses (such as flowers, obituary notices, etc.).

Type of Service

When planning a funeral, it's important to consider what type of service will be most meaningful. If a religious service is desired, identify the priest, rabbi, or another officiant who will lead the service.

Determine if the service will include a eulogy or words of remembrance from family and friends, if music will be included and if the service will conclude with a committal or ritual.


It's important to choose a venue that is both appropriate and accessible for all of those who will be in attendance. It should have enough space to comfortably accommodate all attendees and provide any necessary amenities for their comfort.

The venue should also reflect the wishes of the deceased and the type of service desired, be it religious or secular. It should be located near public transport as well as having close access to parking.

Music and Readings

Music and readings can add a personal touch to the funeral service and reflect the personality and interests of the deceased. Consider selecting music that was meaningful to the person, or have family members or friends read a special poem or passage.

Flowers and Decorations

Decorations like flowers can enhance the ambiance of the funeral service. You can choose to have funeral flowers delivered to the funeral home, or you can request that donations be made to a specific charity in the name of the deceased.

Food and Refreshments

Food served will also depend on the family's wishes and financial capability. It can range from traditional snacks, like coffee and a pastry, to full-course meals. Finger foods are often popular choices, as they can provide an appropriate atmosphere for an event such as a funeral.

Dealing with Loss and Planning a Funeral

Planning a funeral can seem like a daunting task, but by considering these important factors, you can ensure that the funeral arrangements you plan are a fitting tribute to your loved one.

Take your time, ask questions, and seek the help of friends and family if you need it. Remember that the funeral is a celebration of life, and it's an opportunity to come together to honor and remember the person who has passed away.

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