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4 Best Dating Apps If You Want to Get Married

Most people would say the surge we saw in dating app usage is because of the lockdown and the pandemic, but we were already steering toward that for almost a decade now. But in 2021, it has become the #1 way most couples meet. The problem we faced when compiling this list is that most people don’t download a dating app ONLY to get married. Some might just want to get into a long-term relationship and see where that goes, while others are looking to just hook up.

But there is more evidence to suggest that more people are using these apps not just for something short term, they are intentionally using it to find something long term. And, couples that marry after meeting on a dating app are less likely to end in divorce.

In this article, we will talk about the top 4 dating apps you should download if you are looking to get married in the near future.

1. Tinder

Yes, I know. This is the app that most people turn toward for casual relationships. But hear me out. According to The Knot 2020 Jewelry and Engagement Study, almost 26% of the newlywed couples met on Tinder. And their internal data also show that Gen Z users are not always looking for something casual.

More and more Gen Z’ers are looking for something long-term, or at least for a long-lasting connection.

How do we know that?

They are customizing their profiles to match with someone who would share their beliefs, have similar ideologies and outlooks when it comes to politics and religion. You don’t do that if you are looking for something casual or short-term.

By matching with people that have similar beliefs, they would have an easier time hanging out with each other and give each other the opportunity to see if it could lead to something more.

Having opposite ideologies doesn’t allow for that. You should also check out for more in-depth reviews of these apps so you can know how you should create your online dating profiles to match with more people that are like you.

2. Hinge

Hinge came on the dating app scene as the app that incentivized people to form long-lasting connections. So much so that they end up deleting the app.

If you think about it, that is the best outcome for everyone dating online. But most apps are created to make money. And they only make money if their users keep coming back.

In 2020, Hinge was responsible for over 12% of the newlywed couples.

It is drastically different than Tinder because it allows people to comment on users’ pictures which increases the likelihood of you matching with them. Not only that you also get a “rose” every week if your profile stands out, and other features like it.

It is similar to the Boost feature you get on Tinder.

But the difference is in swiping. Because you are taking the time to check out the full profile of the other person. And also taking the time to comment on their pictures, you are being thoughtful about your swipes.

Which means you are swiping less. But the quality of your swipes will go through the roof. And your chances of matching with the person you are interested in are also through the roof.

3. Bumble

Bumble is known as the anti-Tinder in a way because it gave all the power to the females on the app. They are the ones who have to send the first message. For same-sex couples, both users can send the first message.

This was revolutionary when it launched because that meant no more cheesy pick-up lines that creeped out the females. They can choose what kind of conversation they would like to have with a person.

Because of that, it has become one of the more preferred and the 2nd most popular dating app out there. Tinder still takes the throne when it comes to popularity (it’s the first mover's advantage if you think about it).

In 2020, Bumble was responsible for over 22% of the newlyweds. Just 5% shy of being the top dating app that leads to marriages.

4. OkCupid

Just like Hinge, OkCupid focuses on extensive questioning to get as much information about the users as possible. That allows their algorithm to match other users that have similar interests as them. The only difference is that the users cannot comment on individual images of the profile. They can only send an initial introductory message which is still a good thing because that can also get some thoughtful conversations going.

Summing Up

The thing is, you will see these 4 apps pop up in almost every other dating category as well because they do a really good job at matching people with similar interests. The thing that will decide whether you are able to match with people that are intentionally looking for dates and long-term relationships, is how much effort you put into your dating profile and what kind of info you include in there.

On Bumble, for example, there is an option where you choose whether you are looking for Something Casual or Something Serious. Obviously, if you choose Something Casual while expecting to match with people that are looking for something serious will be a disaster.

OkCupid and Hinge have similar categories as well.

Tinder doesn’t have a category like that so you will have to mention that in your profile description.

Another major thing is your pictures (duh!). They will decide what kind of matches you get.

But at the end of the day, all that matters is sparking a connection with someone you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with. It doesn’t matter how you do it, as long as you do it.

You don’t even have to download a dating app for that. You can do it the old-fashioned way as long as you are following the social distancing protocols. But dating apps just make the whole process a LOT easier.

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